Single Ladies, Are you cheating on your husband?Part 1

Question: How many of you singles are married?

If you answered "no" dah, then you are highly mistaken. I am here to inform you that you are indeed already married. Oh, no, you don't believe me? Ok, well maybe you will believe this:

For your Maker is your husband-- the LORD Almighty is his name-- the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; he is called the God of all the earth. Isaiah 54:5(NIV)

So, let me ask you again. Singles, Are you married? If you answered "yes" of course,  you have answered correctly. I knew I couldn't convince you but it's something about the power of His Word...smile...

Now that you know the truth about your single status, I want to also inform you that your husband is a jealous husband. He wants you all to himself. He wants to be your everything, but too many times we are seeking our earthly husband and neglect our first love. But, we must remember and learn to be THE wife to our heavenly husband before we can be "A" wife to a earthly husband.(selah)

Being "THE" wife, while waiting to be "A" wife is extremely essential.   

Question #2: How many of us really want God's will to be done in our life? Honestly...

Now what if His will for you is NOT to be married, how hard would that be to except? Yea, I know, EXTREMELY hard for so many. But, yet we pray all the time, "Lord, not my will, but your will be done." What we really mean is, "As long as it's according to my will" if we are really honest with ourselves.  I said all of that to say, First, we must learn to be content with our heavenly husband, and be THE wife He has created us to be to Him before He can entrust us with a earthly husband that He has created for us. Our first lesson of intimacy comes from our first husband.

 If the desire for a man is stronger than the desire for the Creator, we are not ready for the man that God has in store for us. Every good and perfect gift comes from God, James 1:17.

 Are you cheating on your husband? If we are not faithful, committed and submissive to our First Husband, how can He trust us with the promise. He will not be in competition with anyone.

 "We cheat on "THE" Husband and yet expect Him to bless us with "A" husband.(Selah)..

 

No matter how hard we try we will never be able to fill the void that only God has divinely designed. God purposefully created that void so we can solely depend, and forever be drawn closer to Him. This void only He can fill. We can do all the sexing, sexting, dating, smoking, drinking, eating, etc, and we realize these things will never Ever, Ever, EVER, fill this void that was created by God Himself.  And, even when God blesses us with an earthly husband, there will always be a place that was designed for only God to satisfy, because even a man won't be able to meet our need. They were not designed to meet our every need anyway, only God can satisfy our every need.

God blesses us not to wing us off of Him but to draw us closer to Him.

Plenty of times we boldly say "God said"  when in reality God didn't say anything. Our lustful desires said it and God had nothing to do with it at all. Then we have to re-track and realize maybe this wasn't God, maybe this was me. Thank God we can go into reverse and get it right by repenting.

Disclosure: Now, this is only for the honest people. For those who never experienced this, God bless you. But that's not my testimony.

Therefore, we have to be careful when we profess that God blessed us when we are clearly walking in disobedience and  miserable all at the same time.

EXTRA,EXTRA READ ALL ABOUT IT!!!

That's not a blessing that's a "fleshing"...Yes, I created that word, but it works. So, just roll with me..ok,smile.

"The blessing of the LORD makes a person rich, and he adds no sorrow with it." Prov 10:22,

BLESSINGS vs FLESHINGS

• Blessings:  Being Spirit Lead/Lines up with the Word of God---Leads to Prosperity, Joy, Peace, etc

•  Fleshings:  Being Flesh lead/Manipulating our own deliverance/"blessings"---Leads to      Miseries, Sorrows and Consequences

 "Walk in the spirit and we shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh".. Galatians 5:16-17

Food for thought

Spirit= Isaac

Flesh=Ishmael

When we pray, do we wait patiently on Him? Or do we manipulate our own deliverance; our own so-called 'blessing?"

God wants nothing but the best for our life. He knows us better than we know ourselves. He knows what we need and what we can handle. Believe it or not, it's the truth anyhow. No matter how you slice it. His love for us is always fresh and He wants us to be able to handle the blessings properly so that He can get the glory.

It's when we THINK we're ready, is when we ARE NOT...

Often times, to choose between Good and Bad is easy, but to choose between Good, Better, Best is difficult so we settle for less than God's best for our life because the BEST requires more:

• More waiting; More sacrificing; More strength; More self-control/discipline; More faith and More trust.

To be Continued...I didn't realize how long this blog was..My God...

Please Click Below to Check Out Part 2...
http://divinebydesign3.blogspot.com/2014/05/single-ladies-are-you-cheating-on-your_22.html

Who Are You?

You are THE wife God has created you to be NOW and waiting patiently to Be A wife to the man God has tailor made just for you...

Have a Blessed and Purposeful Day,

TPL😘😘😘