Thursday, May 22, 2014

Single Ladies, Are you cheating on your husband? PART 2

We live in a modern society where everything is based on convenience, quick, fast and in a hurry. We have instant everything these days; fast food, microwaves, instant messages, high speed Internet, express packaging, etc... Technology has taking us into a world of easy access that makes waiting almost impossible. We can even pay for speedy delivery. Go figure...We would rather pay a hefty price for convenience instead on waiting for the BEST!!! We have paid the price of entering into bad "SHIPS" Relationships, Business partnerships, Friendships and Fellowships.

That's why God has a strategic reasons why He requires us to wait patiently on Him:
  1. To Strengthen us
  2. To Prepare us
  3. To Equip us
  4. To Develop
  5. To Mature us
  6. To Bless us and ultimately, to Glorify Him...
So, whatever that thing/person is that we've put priority in our life other than God, understand it or he/she will never fill that void-that longing or desire. Temporary fixes can leave permanent damage and scars. Don't make a fleshly decision based on lustful desires and then want God to bless it. Only God can totally and completely satisfy our cravings to be loved and accepted unconditionally.
GOD IS TRUE INTIMACY!!!
Nothing or no one can compare. Nothing or no one can satisfy like He can. He is the only one who can meet our every need; emotionally, spiritually, physically, mentally, financially, etc...

Only God can filled our void of emptiness and loneliness. Therefore, we must learn to be content with our heavenly husband. He will keep us, comfort us and show us what true intimacy is;the intimacy without the guilt.

Remember, our heavenly husband knows us, yet He created us inside out. He knows our likes and dislikes; what turns us on and what turns us off; He touches us where we hurt; He catches our every tear before they fall; He holds us every so tightly; He soothes and keep us calm with his warm embrace; He keeps us safe from harm; He encamps His angels around us to fight our battles; He sees our total nakedness and loves unconditionally without judgment. Now, That's TRUE INTIMACY!!! Oh my goodness,,, who can resent this kind of intimacy.. only a fool!!!
Salt N Pepa said it best: What a man, What a man, What a man, What a mighty good man, yes HE IS....

He is our first love, our first husband, our first everything, Why Cheat On Him? He deserves and desires much more from THE wife. We need to ask ourselves, how would it feel if we were cheated on by someone we loved so deeply, someone we gave something very precious and dear too, unfortunately, some of us already know the answer to that, because we too, have been cheated on once or twice in our life and it crushed us. Therefore, how do you think your Maker feels when we cheat on Him? Let's not be a cheater, but delight in THE husband and watch Him give us everything we desire, including "A" husband according to His will.  He doesn't even want us to cheat on Him with a husband, Play with it...

If we can be Faithful, Committed, Submissive, Loving, etc...towards our first husband, He can entrust us to continue being that wife to Him even after He sends our earthly husband without putting him before our Creator... Like I said before, He is a jealous Husband...
So, what can we take away from this long drawn out post... it's very simple!!!
If:
He who finds "A" WIFE, finds a good thing and finds favor from the Lord... 
Then, wouldn't it behoove us to be a WIFE already? I don't recall it saying: He who finds a girlfriend, a booty call, a one night stand, a ho, a mistress, etc... It clearly says, He who finds a WIFE, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord (Proverbs 18:22)
(Spiritually)You don't become a wife when you marry per se, in God's eyes you are already "THE" Wife, selah...
WHO ARE YOU?
You are a good thing that will cause your Husband to obtain favor from the Lord. You go girl!!! Do your THANG!!! You are the best wife your husband will ever find... Now, walk in it already!!!

P.S. If you are reading this and missed Part 1, you may click here to read...
http://divinebydesign3.blogspot.com/2014/05/single-ladies-are-you-cheating-on-your.html


Have a blessed and purposeful Day,

TPL😘😘😘


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